The Culturally Enforced Subtle Art of "Looking the Other Way"

The Milk and the Meat

as it were..

There is a cultural aspect to the enforcement of law, did you know?

When I leave my truck parked on the street with a boat in the summertime, I am afforded an unwritten amount of time to keep my boat there. Everyone knows in the summertime people stretch the limits on time with the slip.

Boat people, are boat people. RV people, the same.

And when I lived in Seattle, the police chief made it publicly known that he would not enforce certain laws on the books. This is perhaps culturally permissible along with the apparatus of repugnancy and void ab initio, is it? I’m not sure..

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Or when I am driving down the street, if the flow of traffic is going about 5 over, if everybody and I mean everybody is going about five over are you not the dangerous one if traveling five less than they? I’m not entirely sure..

You see, when there is also the cultural, there is the law as it is written, and then there is the cultural expectation which does have weight.

Alan Watts once said he could think of a perfectly pestiferous horde of saints, something like that. And I think it’s true. You don’t want everybody breaking the rules, or enforcing them all at once, or chaos might reign.

There is a certain ‘leaning in to the wave’ or the grey or the fuzz, naturally favoring freedom, where it is preferred not to bother someone who is living their own life. There is a certain ‘doing the right thing’ where repugnancy could trace its lineage, if we were able to find the comparable ancient coin that hadn’t been eroded.

For example, we don’t want everyone all at once to park their boats on the street. If that were to happen, the micro culture would be bent and flexed to the breaking point, and the line in the sand might need to move. I’m not sure. Cultural operates in the quasi in the books and with line of near certainty in the psyche of a given culture.

I can only push my luck so much with the boat thing, but if I unhitch and park that thing in the garage, nobody cares about my truck being there indefinite enough to override the cultural normative. And this is the cultural pressure pushing back and forth in quiet peace, more or less…

I think this might be the purpose of warnings as with discretion. A warning with no fine isn’t usually bothering anyone, not really. Well no, there is exception to this also.

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… But two trucks? I might have to rotate those things. If you come and disturb my culturally normative peace with your enforcement, my natural man quiet enjoyment is being pressed upon by a thousand tiny cuts. So I would argue that the rotated truck guy isn’t bothering anyone either. Not really. There must exceptions to this tolerance also, granted.

After all, we are each of us living our own lives, and we don’t want Pleasantville around here in this context. Not really. Be yourself, as it were.

And why cultural erosion should rarely be met with tolerance and without a bit of pushback. There is the expectation of uniqueness and then there is the cultural expectation on simple shades such as lewdness.

Everyone knows about the unwritten rules. But nobody could say exactly where those boundaries are. It’s sort of… floaty.

You know what I mean?

Is everywhere the same place?

I guess this is sort of what irks me about the displacement of people living in their RV’s during this time of great economic uncertainty. For example if we are to have such a neighbor, or had one I’m not sure, as they weren’t bothering anybody, what’s the problem? If they were or are very respectful and quiet? I make take offense to them being bothered about it in this time of great economic uncertainty. I might feel a cultural tug to defend my neighbor in such a scenario.

I’ve heard it said representatives don’t like to be so close to the heat of the breath of The People if they are taking discretions a little too far.. I wish I could find the precise quote!

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The same for those strange land use or rental use ordinances out of Teller County these days.. Why are vacation homes being converted in this way? I don’t know much about it, but my instinct is tugging towards let those people be at peace; but I’m not sure..

Now today I’ve learned this new term ‘beltway’ or ‘the beltway’. This, I think, in reference to a given powerful circle of people. There are cultural expectations in every cut of cloth, as it were. Unwritten rules. It sounds like it might be difficult or even impossible to cut through all the self-centeredness, or to expound as to the difference between the facade of those who are ‘yes men,’ and those with less than romantic interests for their country’s restoration. And which is the more authentic? Plants surely abound.

I’m not sure, I’m not familiar with these circles. In some ways, it is completely alien to me at this time. The same for you? Probably? I’m not sure..

Is doing the right thing sometimes a matter of looking the other way at the highest levels? Probably? I’m not sure.. Notwithstanding, we have to be careful about the long term consequences, do we not?

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You know what might be the most courageous thing ever for a given representative, such as when I addressed this duty with Amy Mitchell prior to her election?

Restoration.

“In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act”

1984 by George Orwell

Situational, perhaps. Viewer discretion is advised.

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Ok, I had to, I asked ChatGPT by prompting more or less the preceding… As usual, not responsible for error, resulting..

Yes — I know exactly what you mean.

What you’re describing is something political scientists, sociologists, and legal theorists have studied for a long time. There really is a cultural layer to law enforcement. And it operates alongside the written law, sometimes in tension with it.

Let’s separate a few concepts so we don’t blur categories.


:one: Law as Written vs. Law as Enforced

There’s:

  • Statutory law (what’s written in code)
  • Administrative rules
  • Case law
  • Actual enforcement practice

Those are not the same thing.

In practice, every legal system exercises discretion.

Police do not (and cannot) enforce every violation:

  • Slight speeding
  • Minor parking overages
  • Technical registration errors
  • Seasonal boat/trailer parking

If they did, society would grind to a halt.

This discretionary space is not usually about “repugnancy” or “void ab initio.” It’s more about resource allocation and community norms.


:two: Your Boat Example – Micro-Culture

Your example is classic informal norm buffering.

In many communities:

  • Summer = boats, trailers, RVs appear.
  • Enforcement tolerates short-term overflow.
  • Everyone understands it’s temporary.
  • If abuse becomes widespread, enforcement tightens.

That’s not the law changing.
That’s selective enforcement calibrated to community expectations.

Legal scholars sometimes call this:

  • “Norm-based enforcement”
  • “Legal pluralism”
  • “Order without law” (after Robert Ellickson’s work)

It’s a floating boundary — exactly as you said.


:three: The Seattle Chief Example

When a police chief publicly announces non-enforcement of certain laws, that’s different.

For example, in places like:

  • Seattle
  • San Francisco

Officials have at times deprioritized enforcement of:

  • Certain drug possession statutes
  • Low-level public order offenses
  • Minor traffic infractions

That is usually framed as:

  • Prosecutorial discretion
  • Executive prioritization
  • Resource allocation policy

It is not technically a declaration that a statute is void.

Only courts can declare something:

  • Unconstitutional
  • Repugnant to higher law
  • Void ab initio

An executive officer choosing not to enforce something does not legally erase it. It just creates a practical suspension through discretion.


:four: Repugnancy & Void Ab Initio

Those are judicial doctrines.

  • Repugnancy: A lower law conflicts with a higher law and must yield.
  • Void ab initio: Treated as invalid from the start.

Those require judicial determination.

Cultural tolerance is not the same thing.

What you’re describing lives more in the realm of:

  • Custom
  • Equity
  • Administrative discretion
  • Social legitimacy

:five: The “Floaty” Boundary

You’re right that it’s floaty.

That floatiness exists because law is embedded in society.

If enforcement is:

  • Too rigid → perceived as tyrannical.
  • Too lax → perceived as breakdown.

So communities develop “soft zones.”

But here’s the tension:

If everyone suddenly exploits the unwritten rule (e.g., all boats all summer), the culture shifts and enforcement hardens.

That’s feedback between:

  • Written law
  • Enforcement discretion
  • Cultural expectations

:six: The Risk Zone

The danger comes when:

  • Cultural non-enforcement becomes selective based on politics.
  • Enforcement discretion becomes ideological.
  • Laws remain on books but are applied unevenly.

That’s where accusations of arbitrariness or unequal protection arise.

The “quasi” space you describe is stable only when:

  • It’s broadly understood.
  • It’s evenly applied.
  • It’s reversible.

Once it becomes factional, trust erodes.


:seven: What You’re Actually Pointing At

You’re describing the gap between:

Legal formalism
and
Living constitutional / social practice reality

That gap always exists.

The key question isn’t whether it exists — it always has.

The key question is:
Is the discretionary space anchored in neutral norms?
Or is it drifting toward selective power?

That’s where your instinct about “repugnancy” is reaching — but culturally rather than judicially.


If you want, we can go deeper into:

  • The difference between prosecutorial discretion and nullification
  • The historical doctrine of desuetude (laws that die from non-use)
  • Or how Anglo-American law historically balanced custom and statute

Because what you’re circling around is actually a very old tension in common law systems.

The reader will kindly navigate to these YouTube links for context. What is a rino? See also, comments.

https://www.parkcountyco.gov/ArchiveCenter/ViewFile/Item/4301




So far so good, fingers are crossed for the best outcome for The People.